What to do w/ the kid u just can’t stand

Stephanie on June 11th, 2010

What about that one kid?

Come on, ur not fooling me. It’s happened to me, too. There’s always at least one. THAT kid. The one that drives u nuts. The one who whines, annoys, or destroys their way onto irritating ur last nerve.

I’ve had a few myself over the years. Boy #1 was SO needy. Boy #2 was SO annoyingly ADHD. Summer time made it worse because they were always at church and a part of every extended trip. I couldn’t escape them!

Ah, I think ur probably a step ahead of me. #1 had no mom. Dad had no clue. #2 had parents but they were drunk all the time. So of course these two wanted to be in a place that was safe and good.

What did I do? I stopped praying for God to change them. Yep, ’cause it wasn’t working.

I started praying for God to change me. I asked for a heart that would want to love these two. That made all the difference in the world.

So as ur living out ur youth summer, pack a different type of prayer into the carry-on of ur heart. Pray for a unique, focused love. God will not disappoint. After all, He’s the travel agent of this season. 

Stephanie
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andrew burden at 3:50pm June 11

I love the idea of praying for a unique, focused love. It’s those moments when I recognize God is using me because the kid is so annoying I would pop him if I was operating only from my own resources!

Lauren at 3:55pm June 11

I have prayed “Help me love this person the way you do”… and God does honor that prayer :D

Joseph Gormong at 3:07pm June 12

THANKS Stephanie for your encouraging word. I have been in full time student ministry, soon to start my 16th year. Your post was so very simple, but so very encouraging and packed with the truth!

Keep up the good work,

Joe Gormong